What to do after a hookup with a friend


It’s not that you should sequester your heart and your feelings away behind an iron shield of indifference. It’s just that early on when you’re dating, it pays to be aware of how much you’re giving and getting in return. Who wants to be the one who always texts first or shows affection? That doesn’t bode well for how this person would behave as a partner, anyway.

###Here’s a weirdly controversial topic: follow-up text messages post-date. I say “ Do it!” But apparently, lots of other people say “Are you crazy??

“You sent him a text an hour later?” one of my friends asked me recently, when we met for a post-date drink and analysis. “Hmmm. Not that this should be a dealbreaker, but some people might be a little freaked out by that. I’ve definitely dated guys where that’s been the case.”


What to do after a hookup with a friend

What to do after a hookup with a friend



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