How wrong can dating scans be

11. You postpone discussion of difficult topics. You defer discussion about money until after marriage, though it is the source of many problems.

12. You don't realize you are marrying into a family. If you are a man, you will be spending a lot of time with your wife's family.

13. You worry that plans have already been made instead of realizing that marriage is a far greater commitment. You marry to get away from rather than go to something.

14. You don't have common interests though common sense says you two will be spending a lot of time together.

15. You are unwilling to compromise and make the commitment to give and instead believe things should be your way.

16. You pick the person your parents wanted you to be with instead of your own choice.

17. You do not believe or cannot be faithful.

18. You observe your spouse mistreating waitresses, maids and other persons of lower status and fail to recognize that you will be in that category.

19. You do not recognize and work to do things in the manner of the other gender. If you are a man, you need to talk, discuss, even argue, a woman, then realize discussing what has occurred without addressing solution is infinitely frustrating. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus remains the book.

And they still are, 35 years later. Happily so—and probably more so than most people I know who had nonarranged marriages. That’s how my dad decided on the person with whom he was going to spend the rest of his life.

How wrong can dating scans be

How wrong can dating scans be